22 September 2008

He has not "I"

The smile behind the face is just beyond words.
The simple ‘I’ that many would have used in their sentence since age of you is not found in the vocabulary list. Life like a tape recorder and has got no ‘I’. Sigh.
There are just so much of unspoken that I have to piece them and yet there is so much to learn from him. People of his age would probably be thinking of what next for them in life and how much fun they are going to receive. He is just beginning to identify the meaning of “I”. I like …… is a sky high mission for me to work with. Will we have this day? I’m not sure. Or perhaps at least having the smile and not know everything maybe a better way of living. May the higher power give some guidance. God, show me the way.

15 September 2008

What is Love ?

Is meeting soul mate a big challenge nowadays?
Someone confessed in an email below.
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I have everything for happiness in my life: family, a good work and friends. But I am not happy, because I am very lonely. I miss the one thing, which will make me happy- love. What is it? Why people look for it for many years? I am a woman who doesn't give up and I look for my love for many years.
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In my reply, I wrote love is what you determine it to be. Many people associate finding soul mate as what love is. What about you?

Well, open your heart and mind and maybe you would see more love around you.

10 September 2008

When Love Knocks on Others’ Door.

Gosh, I have not been blogging for quite some time..
I like what BS wrote for me.. love guru è I dare not claim this “title” at the moment.
Anyway, today’s blog going to be an interesting topic.
I have been blogging on when love knocks on your door. What about right now that when love knocks on others door.
Does love and selfless coexist together ?

Qiu’s parents were divorce many years ago and both the parents remarried few years after the divorce. Qiu’s stepmother was a typical stepmother that only cares about her own daughter from the first marriage. Eventually when Qiu got married, the stepmother even chased his wife out of the house. With some much of ill treatment from the stepmother, Qiu kept all these away from the dad. There were times that he wanted to tell the Dad that how much he dislike the stepmother, but he held back simply just because he feels that if he were to tell the father all the things, it doesn’t benefit him in anyway and probably upset and hurt his father.

I really admire this kind of selfless spirit from Qiu. I had learnt a great lesson from him and being selfless and maybe the world will be a greater place.
What is the purpose of finding fault at someone, complaining about something that we could take little control? Seek peace wherever you go. Rather than causing people to be upset, how about controlling our own emotions and minimize the destruction that could happen. Let go à simple word, great meaning.

Only when you empty frustration and hatred out of your heart, then happiness and love will find its’ way to the heart.
May your life start to fill with love and let love heal you in anyways.