The smile behind the face is just beyond words.
The simple ‘I’ that many would have used in their sentence since age of you is not found in the vocabulary list. Life like a tape recorder and has got no ‘I’. Sigh.
There are just so much of unspoken that I have to piece them and yet there is so much to learn from him. People of his age would probably be thinking of what next for them in life and how much fun they are going to receive. He is just beginning to identify the meaning of “I”. I like …… is a sky high mission for me to work with. Will we have this day? I’m not sure. Or perhaps at least having the smile and not know everything maybe a better way of living. May the higher power give some guidance. God, show me the way.
22 September 2008
15 September 2008
What is Love ?
Is meeting soul mate a big challenge nowadays?
Someone confessed in an email below.
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I have everything for happiness in my life: family, a good work and friends. But I am not happy, because I am very lonely. I miss the one thing, which will make me happy- love. What is it? Why people look for it for many years? I am a woman who doesn't give up and I look for my love for many years.
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In my reply, I wrote love is what you determine it to be. Many people associate finding soul mate as what love is. What about you?
Well, open your heart and mind and maybe you would see more love around you.
Someone confessed in an email below.
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I have everything for happiness in my life: family, a good work and friends. But I am not happy, because I am very lonely. I miss the one thing, which will make me happy- love. What is it? Why people look for it for many years? I am a woman who doesn't give up and I look for my love for many years.
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In my reply, I wrote love is what you determine it to be. Many people associate finding soul mate as what love is. What about you?
Well, open your heart and mind and maybe you would see more love around you.
10 September 2008
When Love Knocks on Others’ Door.
Gosh, I have not been blogging for quite some time..
I like what BS wrote for me.. love guru è I dare not claim this “title” at the moment.
Anyway, today’s blog going to be an interesting topic.
I have been blogging on when love knocks on your door. What about right now that when love knocks on others door.
Does love and selfless coexist together ?
Qiu’s parents were divorce many years ago and both the parents remarried few years after the divorce. Qiu’s stepmother was a typical stepmother that only cares about her own daughter from the first marriage. Eventually when Qiu got married, the stepmother even chased his wife out of the house. With some much of ill treatment from the stepmother, Qiu kept all these away from the dad. There were times that he wanted to tell the Dad that how much he dislike the stepmother, but he held back simply just because he feels that if he were to tell the father all the things, it doesn’t benefit him in anyway and probably upset and hurt his father.
I really admire this kind of selfless spirit from Qiu. I had learnt a great lesson from him and being selfless and maybe the world will be a greater place.
What is the purpose of finding fault at someone, complaining about something that we could take little control? Seek peace wherever you go. Rather than causing people to be upset, how about controlling our own emotions and minimize the destruction that could happen. Let go à simple word, great meaning.
Only when you empty frustration and hatred out of your heart, then happiness and love will find its’ way to the heart.
May your life start to fill with love and let love heal you in anyways.
I like what BS wrote for me.. love guru è I dare not claim this “title” at the moment.
Anyway, today’s blog going to be an interesting topic.
I have been blogging on when love knocks on your door. What about right now that when love knocks on others door.
Does love and selfless coexist together ?
Qiu’s parents were divorce many years ago and both the parents remarried few years after the divorce. Qiu’s stepmother was a typical stepmother that only cares about her own daughter from the first marriage. Eventually when Qiu got married, the stepmother even chased his wife out of the house. With some much of ill treatment from the stepmother, Qiu kept all these away from the dad. There were times that he wanted to tell the Dad that how much he dislike the stepmother, but he held back simply just because he feels that if he were to tell the father all the things, it doesn’t benefit him in anyway and probably upset and hurt his father.
I really admire this kind of selfless spirit from Qiu. I had learnt a great lesson from him and being selfless and maybe the world will be a greater place.
What is the purpose of finding fault at someone, complaining about something that we could take little control? Seek peace wherever you go. Rather than causing people to be upset, how about controlling our own emotions and minimize the destruction that could happen. Let go à simple word, great meaning.
Only when you empty frustration and hatred out of your heart, then happiness and love will find its’ way to the heart.
May your life start to fill with love and let love heal you in anyways.
25 August 2008
Are You in LOVE ? (When love knocks on your door)
Have you even wondered why people can love fall in love deeply and the next moment lost the feeling for one another completely. “No more feelings” or “cannot feel anything”.
As you felt in love, have you lost yourself, or the relationship that you are in is just casing a lot of unhappiness to your surrounding people?
Personally, I feel that people fall out of relationship mainly due to:
01. Change in life values
02. Misunderstanding of intention. (people usually see behavior but not intention)
03. Lack of commitment
04. Ineffective communication
05. Lack of self understanding and awareness
So what is love all about and what is your ideal love?
According to Sternberg’s Theory ….
Liking = intimacy alone
Infatuation = passion alone
Empty = commitment alone
Romantic love = passion + intimacy
Fatuous = passion + commitment
Companionate love = intimacy + commitment
So what kind of love attracts you the most?
As you felt in love, have you lost yourself, or the relationship that you are in is just casing a lot of unhappiness to your surrounding people?
Personally, I feel that people fall out of relationship mainly due to:
01. Change in life values
02. Misunderstanding of intention. (people usually see behavior but not intention)
03. Lack of commitment
04. Ineffective communication
05. Lack of self understanding and awareness
So what is love all about and what is your ideal love?
According to Sternberg’s Theory ….
Liking = intimacy alone
Infatuation = passion alone
Empty = commitment alone
Romantic love = passion + intimacy
Fatuous = passion + commitment
Companionate love = intimacy + commitment
So what kind of love attracts you the most?
17 August 2008
Experiencing Miracle
I had wonderful weekends, what about you?
Something amazing happened to me on sat. Have you ever experience the kind of joy when you met someone whom you lost contact with for many years ???
Few years back, my mom had an unusual reunion with her lady boss, they lost touch for almost 30 years and with great blessing, you got back together. This is a perfect example of miracle.
16 August 2008, I experienced miracle. 7 years ago, I met this inspiring lady. Jacqueline was the tour guide of my Secondary 4 Geography education trip. That was the first time and the last time I met her and I always wanted to find her, but we did not exchange contact back then, so….
7 year later, in the ordinary old ballroom, I met her. I knew it was her, I can’t be wrong. I walked up to her to ask if she is Jacqueline. She had a little recollection of me initially, “you look familiar”. We were in the same training, training to be mentor. We had a long chat, I was thanking her for the trip as it is definitely one of the factor that keep my friendship with my secondary school friends bonded for so many years.
Perhaps, this is the result of positive thoughts.
Thank you so much for this reunion. Thank you.
Something amazing happened to me on sat. Have you ever experience the kind of joy when you met someone whom you lost contact with for many years ???
Few years back, my mom had an unusual reunion with her lady boss, they lost touch for almost 30 years and with great blessing, you got back together. This is a perfect example of miracle.
16 August 2008, I experienced miracle. 7 years ago, I met this inspiring lady. Jacqueline was the tour guide of my Secondary 4 Geography education trip. That was the first time and the last time I met her and I always wanted to find her, but we did not exchange contact back then, so….
7 year later, in the ordinary old ballroom, I met her. I knew it was her, I can’t be wrong. I walked up to her to ask if she is Jacqueline. She had a little recollection of me initially, “you look familiar”. We were in the same training, training to be mentor. We had a long chat, I was thanking her for the trip as it is definitely one of the factor that keep my friendship with my secondary school friends bonded for so many years.
Perhaps, this is the result of positive thoughts.
Thank you so much for this reunion. Thank you.
16 August 2008
Rossana's New Behaviors
I woke up today with lot of thankfulness for this wonderful day that I am going to experience.
Yesterday, I encountered some unpleasant event and I had not been able to clear them for sometime until this morning I woke up. Last night before I go to sleep, I was telling myself that I will be fine and in my dream I can learnt to let go. I know anger create angry situation, therefore I pray that good thoughts will dissolve the negativities I had.
I’m in the process of positive change and I experience love wherever I go and now I’m going to create a wonderful job. I love and approve myself and I trust the process of life to bring me the best. In the infinite of life where I am, all is perfect. Each moment of my life is fresh and abundant. This is a new day, is a new me. I can think differently, act differently and all will add the wonderful me. Peace begins with me.
Some of my new behaviors:
01. 5 minutes break for 2 hours working and I’ll return to work fresh.
02. Say positive affirmation to myself every hour.
03. Go to sleep with loving thoughts every night.
04. Release people who have negative thoughts from my surrounding.
05. Thank everyone that I meet today.
06. Say a little prayer for the earth each morning.
Yesterday, I encountered some unpleasant event and I had not been able to clear them for sometime until this morning I woke up. Last night before I go to sleep, I was telling myself that I will be fine and in my dream I can learnt to let go. I know anger create angry situation, therefore I pray that good thoughts will dissolve the negativities I had.
I’m in the process of positive change and I experience love wherever I go and now I’m going to create a wonderful job. I love and approve myself and I trust the process of life to bring me the best. In the infinite of life where I am, all is perfect. Each moment of my life is fresh and abundant. This is a new day, is a new me. I can think differently, act differently and all will add the wonderful me. Peace begins with me.
Some of my new behaviors:
01. 5 minutes break for 2 hours working and I’ll return to work fresh.
02. Say positive affirmation to myself every hour.
03. Go to sleep with loving thoughts every night.
04. Release people who have negative thoughts from my surrounding.
05. Thank everyone that I meet today.
06. Say a little prayer for the earth each morning.
13 August 2008
My letter to my universal
Dear Universal
May you grant me power thoughts.
Let the thoughts that I have shape me into a stronger and better someone.
Free me from any stuck situation and dissolve all the negative thoughts. Let the positive thoughts fertilize the garden in my life. Fill my life with joy and peace in this journey.
I know my body can heal itself. My willingness to forgive will heal me.
I trust my inner wisdom and the inner place in me will guide me. This is the place where my inner self provide me with the answer to my own questions.
Even if I do not how to forgive I know that I can learn to forgive and you will help me. This forgiveness will be a gift from you. I thank you for this richness day that you grant me. The higher instinct and my heart will make peace with you. Together we work wonder.
The rhythm and flow in life that I’m with you will bring me the highest growth.
My perfect living space will bring my love. I thank you for the gift for today, the love for today. Fill my home, my work place to everywhere I go with all my needs. Let each moment be a wonderful experiences.
What I believe will become true for me and I trust that my life will get better all the time. I am willing to let go and serve my life with any positive ways. My new thoughts will always be positive and fulfilling. My thoughts that shape will world will be friendly, comfortable, loving, laughing and fantastic thoughts.
If there is any unloving thought, I quickly change it to a loving thoughts and I know you will support me. I have unlimited choice with my thoughts and there is no blames, therefore I chose thoughts that are useful for me. I release the need to blame anyone. I will do the best to let go and only the good will come.
I release all the things that cloud my vision. I will see the world with compassion and I know I’ll be safe with you. All lives love and will support me. I breathe in love and life supports me with all good. I am whole and complete. All is Well.
In any situation when I experience challenges, I immediate tell myself, in this situation only good will come, and all is well and soon I know you will get me to the best situation. I will go beyond and fears and limitation. It is my mind that will create my own reality. I am at peace with myself.
I am Loved. I love life. I love my vibrant and healthy body. I love my positive thoughts.
Today will be a great day and everyday will be.
May you grant me power thoughts.
Let the thoughts that I have shape me into a stronger and better someone.
Free me from any stuck situation and dissolve all the negative thoughts. Let the positive thoughts fertilize the garden in my life. Fill my life with joy and peace in this journey.
I know my body can heal itself. My willingness to forgive will heal me.
I trust my inner wisdom and the inner place in me will guide me. This is the place where my inner self provide me with the answer to my own questions.
Even if I do not how to forgive I know that I can learn to forgive and you will help me. This forgiveness will be a gift from you. I thank you for this richness day that you grant me. The higher instinct and my heart will make peace with you. Together we work wonder.
The rhythm and flow in life that I’m with you will bring me the highest growth.
My perfect living space will bring my love. I thank you for the gift for today, the love for today. Fill my home, my work place to everywhere I go with all my needs. Let each moment be a wonderful experiences.
What I believe will become true for me and I trust that my life will get better all the time. I am willing to let go and serve my life with any positive ways. My new thoughts will always be positive and fulfilling. My thoughts that shape will world will be friendly, comfortable, loving, laughing and fantastic thoughts.
If there is any unloving thought, I quickly change it to a loving thoughts and I know you will support me. I have unlimited choice with my thoughts and there is no blames, therefore I chose thoughts that are useful for me. I release the need to blame anyone. I will do the best to let go and only the good will come.
I release all the things that cloud my vision. I will see the world with compassion and I know I’ll be safe with you. All lives love and will support me. I breathe in love and life supports me with all good. I am whole and complete. All is Well.
In any situation when I experience challenges, I immediate tell myself, in this situation only good will come, and all is well and soon I know you will get me to the best situation. I will go beyond and fears and limitation. It is my mind that will create my own reality. I am at peace with myself.
I am Loved. I love life. I love my vibrant and healthy body. I love my positive thoughts.
Today will be a great day and everyday will be.
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