25 August 2008

Are You in LOVE ? (When love knocks on your door)

Have you even wondered why people can love fall in love deeply and the next moment lost the feeling for one another completely. “No more feelings” or “cannot feel anything”.
As you felt in love, have you lost yourself, or the relationship that you are in is just casing a lot of unhappiness to your surrounding people?
Personally, I feel that people fall out of relationship mainly due to:
01. Change in life values
02. Misunderstanding of intention. (people usually see behavior but not intention)
03. Lack of commitment
04. Ineffective communication
05. Lack of self understanding and awareness

So what is love all about and what is your ideal love?
According to Sternberg’s Theory ….

Liking = intimacy alone
Infatuation = passion alone
Empty = commitment alone
Romantic love = passion + intimacy
Fatuous = passion + commitment
Companionate love = intimacy + commitment

So what kind of love attracts you the most?

1 comment:

Ahsun Wrote down Here @ said...

Wow....sounds true ya....so u're a love guru now?? haha....yr blog is interesting....take care ya... :)